Of Love, Life and Marriage

We have both grown after 7 years since we tied the knot in 2009. Coming back to Amara Sanctuary brought back memories of the day we celebrated our union. And as we recount the tears of joy, frustration, anguish, uncertainty and challenges in our lives; we are glad that we both have each to lean on because I think the greatest lesson in a marriage is that it teaches you humility, to know that you are not perfect and that there is so much to do to be better.

Love makes us vulnerable, but it makes us stronger.

Love makes us selfish, but more selfless.

Marriage is not only a union, but a division of labour.

Marriage is not only a day of celebration, but a lifetime of gratitude.

Only when you discover your purpose, you discover the meaning of your union.

Jaeden, marry a woman not because of her looks, because beauty will fade, skin will wrinkle with age. Marry a woman who will make you better, at times, even drive you up the wall to wake you up. Marry a woman who will not flaunt and spend your wealth. Marry a woman who can accept you even when you are at your lowest, because together you will soar to great heights (only if you work together with honesty).

Jaelyn, marry a man not because of how deep his pocket is, but the depth of his compassion. Marry a man who supports your growth, even when he drives up up the wall to make you discover hidden strength, grace and tenacity. Marry a man who wouldn't ask you to change how you look, even when you are at your ugliest, because together you will learn about the most precious lessons life will ever teach (only with real love and acceptance).

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